Your Personal Recruiter®

As your ‘Personal Recruiter®’ we have only one thing on our minds. To introduce you to exactly the kind of person you’ve been searching for. Selective Search has been successful at creating long-lasting relationships because we treat each search individually, and by using the proven vetting process as Fortune 500 headhunters. Pre-screening, interviewing and hand picking only the most appropriate candidates from our network of over 150,000 sophisticated, intelligent, quality singles. It is a proven process that gets us closer to our clients and helps identify desirable potential matches. It places a premium on our client’s time. We never waste a client’s valuable time with inappropriate referrals.

As a client, here is what you can expect:

  • A Fresh, Unlimited Network of Available Candidates
    Selective Search has one of the largest nationwide personal search databases. We have access to a vast network of only a certain kind of person. Individuals of true substance and style, whom we pre-screen and interview with scrutiny and detail, before we consider recommending them. Although our database includes over 150,000 quality candidates from around the country, we don’t restrict your search to it. We leave no stone unturned in looking for a potential mate for our clients.

  • Fit, Educated, Emotionally Healthy, Attractive and Fun-Loving
    The women of Selective Search are not your average women. They are attractive, desirable woman of substance and style. They are the ‘needles in the haystack’ – women who are also looking for a special person. This caliber of woman means we are judicious about who we include in our network. This assures our clients that they will only be matched with spectacular, high caliber referrals.

  • An Investment in High-Caliber Women
    To ensure the membership grows daily, we invest heavily in nationwide recruiting efforts that include: extensive marketing in national publications and on the web; advertising at salons, spas and health clubs and monthly Recruiting Parties held nationally at upscale establishments. We actively pursue public relations efforts - we have been seen on CNN and CBS' The Early Show, as well as featured in Fortune, Forbes, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Investor’s Business Daily and The Wall Street Journal.

  • We're Everywhere So You Don't Have To Be
    In addition to our offices around the country, we have trained, professional ‘Scouts', who cover the U.S. and abroad; their role is to locate high-quality, available single women for our Clients. Our Scouts are smart, classy, sophisticated women who attend the latest cultural events, galas, openings, upscale clubs, restaurants and vacation spots - destinations we know that attract a particular kind of woman. Although we have the largest network in the industry and perform national and international searches, Selective Search is very much a boutique personal matchmaker. We specifically work one-on-one with each Client, priding ourselves on individual levels of attention, a focus on customer service, a premium on privacy, knowing Clients' preferences, and providing a dedicated, seasoned recruiting staff with industry expertise – hallmarks of the Selective Search boutique experience.

For a personal, confidential conversation on how we can help you meet your personal relationship goals, we welcome you to call us at 312.396.1200.

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