What Our Clients Say About Selective Search

"You said, "One and done" and I didn't believe you. I proposed to her last week. You were right on the money!"


"Got some news! XXXX’s ring finger has a little extra sparkle! We are thinking June for the wedding. NICE WORK!!! We are so excited about our future! Thank you soooo much!!!


"We are doing great---all because of you and your intro. Changed my life."


"XXXX and I have been running around like crazy the last couple of weeks and have booked a church and wedding reception venue!! It's amazing how this is all falling in place so quickly. We couldn’t have done it without you!"


"It was incredible. She is everything I would want in a mate and more. She met my immediate family on Saturday. Officially boyfriend & girlfriend and I dropped the L word over the weekend. She feels the same"


"XXXXX and I are doing great! It just keeps getting better and better! We toasted you New Year’s Eve! Thanks you soooo much for bring us together. We just can’t believe we have found this at this stage in our lives."


"This morning I was reading that Ponce de Leon never found his search for the magic source of water from the fountain of youth. Then it hit me. Bam! Pow! You and your innovative organization are the source of beautiful, intelligent, and genuine women. It isn’t magic or luck. There is an absolute sense of passionate love in you and in your dedicated associates. It's great to have you here with me along for this journey. I am having one of the best times of my life. I feel like a young pup again. After 16 years of futile searching, I finally feel like I can relax and say "Aha" and drink from your source of vibrant women... all is well. It doesn't get any better. Whatever you're doing, keep it up!"


"It has been a while but this has been the best year of my life and so surreal! XXXX took me to 3 countries in Europe this past summer and we had so much fun, which is when I fell in love with him. While we were there he took me ring shopping in the Diamond District and I picked out a ring. Thank you for introducing us as he is my soul mate! I still wonder how I got so lucky to be with my dream man!!!"


"Things with XXXX and I are going well. We are now exclusive. Thank you so much for your due diligence in picking the right person for me. "


"Wish I could give you the BIGGEST hug right now....XXXX proposed on Saturday, we're ENGAGED! THANK YOU a billion times for helping me to find the man of my dreams. Hope to see you at the engagement party! He truly is perfect - Thanks to everyone at Selective Search."


"XXXX and I are approaching our 1 year wedding anniversary and have you and your amazing team to thank!! I simply cannot believe this love and this man!! We often discuss, reliving the process and how we were lucky enough to find each other. All of this due to Selective Search!!"


"Yes, we hit it off really well. She's beautiful inside and out. Mature, honest, sexy, warm, and happy. We have plans set for next week, so we'll see how it evolves. I wanted to kiss her the entire date, so I guess that says it all."


"We often times talk about Selective Search, just to remind ourselves how lucky we are to have used your services."


"I introduced XXXX to my daughter last night! He took us to dinner and was so nice to her. It was comfortable and fun."


"The time together was magical... With several things addressed in my life, I am finally open to the XXXX full on love assault. Lord what a lady, never have met anyone like her! From the movie TOPGUN... "There are hearts breaking all over the world, as I am OFF THE MARKET."


"XXXX and I are still madly in LOVE. 1 year and 7 months!!!"


"I don't know what one writes to their consultant/representative regarding their matching of two people...to be honest, for me, its two words...Thank You! Thank you for listening, feeling and most importantly, understanding of what I wanted. Jerry and I had a wonderful dinner last night. To be able to communicate, share experiences and to instantly feel comfortable with one another convinced me you are a professionals that take true concern for her clients."


"Thank you very much for introducing us - it's still really new, but he could quite possibly be the best man I've ever met!"


"Yes! XXXX and I are still dating. We hit the 1 year mark last month and celebrated with a short weekend trip to New York."


"Things with XXXX couldn't be better. I am very much in love and feel so lucky to have him in my life. In addition to being my boyfriend, he is a wonderful friend, confidant, co-counsel, fellow adventurer and partner. We celebrated my birthday last weekend, and I couldn't help but think how much better my birthday was this year than last with the addition of him to my life. Thanks for your role in bringing us together. In some ways, it is funny to me that we never crossed paths on our own because we have a lot of mutual friends, so I guess I am just thankful for you!"


"I am energized with the search and am confident I will meet, fall in love (and her with me) and marry one of the women you introduce me to. I know that's a lofty goal but I believe it completely. Thanks again for all of your time and effort in this search and your understanding of the importance of this to me."


"XXXX and I have been having the time of life! We are both super happy in LOVE, and have been traveling to many exciting places. I never thought I would be there and then to be with someone so special made it even more fantastic. We both are still very thankful that we joined Selective Search!!!"


"I am in the venture capital business and am use to doing research on competitive companies within an industry. Choosing a wife-headhunter was very important for me and I did quite a bit of research. Even though Selective Search is not in my city, I thought their business model generated the best, high-quality "deal flow", and now I can attest that Selective Search proved me right. Barbie is an unusually talented matchmaker. As the Master Card advertisement says -"SSI fees: several thousand dollars. Finding an amazing partner: Priceless."


"Selective Search is single handedly the best investment you can make in life. Complete professionalism from the initial contact and immediate attention to any concerns, thoughts, or questions. The staff are your best friends looking out for your behalf. Selective Search...for your most important decision. Those not interested in love, happiness and marriage, need not inquire!"


"...a sincere team who clearly believes in what they do. They are my greatest cheerleaders, really enthusiastic with their wins. They pay attention to their clients needs and it always seem they really enjoy what they do."


"Selective Search provides a very effective team approach. The individuals are motivated, thoughtful and caring."


"Selective Search has developed such a solid reputation in its key markets that it facilitates extremely high caliber women to approach the company on an unsolicited basis."


"Selective Search is all about quality and not quantity. They demonstrated a very rapid learning curve in finding the high caliber woman I am looking to meet."


"Barbie Adler listens and understands, then finds the hard-to-find people you want to meet."

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