Testimonials attest to proven matchmaking success.

What Men Are Saying...

"I am in the venture capital business and am use to doing research on competitive companies within an industry. Choosing a wife-headhunter was very important for me and I did quite a bit of research. Even though Selective Search is not in my city, I thought their business model generated the best, high-quality "deal flow", and now I can attest that Selective Search proved me right. Barbie is an unusually talented matchmaker. As the Master Card advertisement says -"SSI fees: several thousand dollars. Finding an amazing partner: Priceless."


"Selective Search is single handedly the best investment you can make in life. Complete professionalism from the initial contact and immediate attention to any concerns, thoughts, or questions. The staff are your best friends looking out for your behalf. Selective Search...for your most important decision. Those not interested in love, happiness and marriage, need not inquire!"


"...a sincere team who clearly believes in what they do. They are my greatest cheerleaders, really enthusiastic with their wins. They pay attention to their clients needs and it always seem they really enjoy what they do."


"Selective Search provides a very effective team approach. The individuals are motivated, thoughtful and caring."


"Selective Search has developed such a solid reputation in its key markets that it facilitates extremely high caliber women to approach the company on an unsolicited basis."


"Selective Search is all about quality and not quantity. They demonstrated a very rapid learning curve in finding the high caliber woman I am looking to meet."


"Barbie Adler listens and understands, then finds the hard-to-find people you want to meet."

"I have gone out with  ##  three times in the past week, and we are planning to go out again this weekend.  She is truly something special...so far so good"

What Women Are Saying...

" I am going to celebrate New Years Eve with ## - you can only imagine how happy I am!!!!                              _____________________________________________

"I was skeptic to begin with. I have no problem meeting really quality guys, I just haven’t found ‘The One’ – but my friend had a wonderful, positive experience with Selective Search, so I took a chance – in only a few dates, I found a man I could truly connect with. Three months later, we’re in a close relationship and having an incredible time."


"All it took was one introduction. Selective Search listened to what I wanted and found it. We have been dating for six months. I am in love again!"


"Selective Search has provided me with impeccable guidance which has given me insight into myself and quite frankly, men."


"Selective Search truly cares about the "success" of their clients. The process is deliberate and focused, but not rushed to ensure the highest probability of finding the right partner."


"Selective Search is caring and dedicated to this process. What more could I ask for?"


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