100% Offline & Confidential

87% Success Rate

Over 3,902 Happy Couples


Luxury Matchmaking with unparalleled Results

Each Selective Search Client is paired with their own dedicated team of Matchmakers and researchers, and benefits from the full collaboration of our staff and Scout network. Our Matchmakers create a holistic approach by combining their intuition and experience with our sophisticated search algorithms. With our Meet Your Future process you will understand what is happening with your search every step of the way. Unlike dating apps or dating networks you may be familiar with, the boutique matchmaking space, of which Selective Search is the leader, provides an unparalleled strategic and confidential approach.

100% Confidential

Your privacy matters and we take it seriously. Only Selective Search employees have access to your information and your consent is needed before sharing personal contact information with a potential match. From your first consultation to your happily ever after, our services are 100% confidential.

100% Offline

We are not a dating site. We are not a dating app. We are 100% offline. Your personal information, throughout our entire process, is kept in strict confidence and is for internal use only. We do not collect or store your personal identifiable information on our website. Unlike dating apps or dating sites, we believe in personally interviewing every candidate to ensure that your match has accurately represented themselves.

Expansive Affiliate Network

Selective Search has the largest proprietary database in the industry. We also have a robust Scout network that recruits candidates who meet your specific search criteria. Our resources and expansive reach ensure that we find the right person for you. Not a best friend’s friend. Not the best option in your city. Just the absolute best person for you.

Team Supported

As a Client, you are paired with a team of Matchmakers and researchers, and benefit from the full support of our Scouts, Marketing department and other professionals in all aspects of the business who are collectively dedicated to helping you find love. Our Matchmakers meet weekly to collaborate on new searches and tactics, so that you can benefit from over 100 years of combined matchmaking experience.

Proprietary network

Our Affiliate network is composed of over 250,000 vetted, high-caliber individuals who have expressed interest in finding a committed relationship. Our search efforts extend beyond our Affiliate database, and include proactive recruiting through our Scout network and extensive personal contacts. Unlike dating apps and other boutique firms, all Selective Search Affiliates are fully vetted to ensure a perfect match.

Experience in Business & Love

Barbie Adler left a successful career as an executive recruiter to launch Selective Search over 20 years ago. Bringing executive recruiting methodologies to matchmaking has made our Meet Your Future process uniquely powerful in the industry, resulting in an 87% success rate, the highest success rate of any matchmaking firm or service. The process also respects each Client’s time, privacy and opportunity costs.

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