When it comes to choosing a matchmaking firm, trust in their success rate matters. But not all claims are created equal. Some matchmaking firms cite broad, industry-wide dating statistics — sweeping claims that are impossible to verify. At Selective Search, we take a different approach. Our success rate isn’t a generic industry metric. It’s based on actual client outcomes, tracked and measured with precision, and supported by data from our own searches. With nearly three decades of experience to back it up, Selective Search continues to stand as the leading luxury matchmaking firm.
What Does “Success” Mean at Selective Search?
We believe success should be defined in partnership with the client. That’s why our 89% success rate is grounded in tangible outcomes, not abstract industry surveys. Our success rate is based on the completion of mutually agreed upon measures with the client, supporting our personalized approach to their needs.
This means if a client’s goal is a long-term committed relationship, we measure success when they find it. If their goal is to meet a partner who shares their lifestyle and values, we measure success when that partnership is established. Engagement and marriage may be the goal for many clients, but each search is unique, and so is our definition of success.
Success Beyond the Numbers
While 89% is the headline statistic, our results extend far beyond one figure. Here are some of the ways we measure and demonstrate success:
- Client Outcomes: 4,000+ happy couples formed since our founding
- Client Satisfaction: A concierge-level experience that earns repeat clients and referrals
- BBB Rating: An A+ rating with the Better Business Bureau reflects our integrity, accountability, and long-standing reputation
- Longevity: Nearly three decades in business, with more than 150 years of combined matchmaking experience on our team
- Testimonials: Stories from clients who share how our process helped them find the love of their life
“I have had experience with both Selective Search and one other major national search firm. I have found Selective Search to be far superior in several important aspects: the professionalism of their people, the thoroughness and sophistication of their processes, the very discrete manner with which they handle personal information, and of course, and most importantly, the degree to which they are able to identify and recommend only highly qualified candidates. I would recommend them to anyone without reservation!” – Jerry, Selective Search Client
Why Our Data Matters
Other firms may rely on broad industry stats to frame their success. These statistics often lack transparency and do not reflect the performance of a specific firm. At Selective Search, our results are drawn from our own client base. The difference is clear; when you choose us, you’re choosing a firm that stands behind its numbers with data.
Success, Defined by You
Ultimately, success in matchmaking is deeply personal. That’s why our team works closely with each client to define the milestones that matter most. We align our process with your goals — and measure progress together.