SAN FRANCISCO MATCHMAKER SERVICES
The love of your life is waiting
Selective Search has over 185 years of combined Matchmaker experience and has successfully matched over 4,000 couples. Ranked as the best matchmaking service in San Francisco for professionals, Selective Search Matchmakers have proven results building long-term loving relationships for busy, successful individuals who value their time and privacy.
There are many matchmaker services available in the San Francisco area, but there are none that safeguard your time, privacy, and preferences like Selective Search. Unlike other dating sites or apps, Selective Search is dedicated to building long-term loving relationships for busy professionals just like you.
Dating in San Francisco
Are you aware that San Francisco, California is one of the premier cities for singles seeking authentic connections? San Francisco is a captivating city for professionals with its thriving tech industry, iconic architecture, vibrant arts scene, and a gastronomic landscape that contends with the country’s best.
Knowing that professionals often have demanding schedules, we’ve made the effort to provide you with a carefully selected list of the top restaurants and date ideas in the San Francisco area.
Selective Search. Proven Results.
89%
Success Rate
185+
Years of Combined Matchmaker Experience
4,000+
Happy Couples
Start Your Search For Love In San Francisco
Selective Search can help you find the person you’ve been looking for. The question isn’t whether we’ll be able to find them. It’s “How soon would you like to meet them?”
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In a city driven by ambition, dating in San Francisco often falls to the bottom of the list. Discover how matchmakers are helping elite singles prioritize love with precision and intention.
Selective Search San Francisco Matchmakers have a well cultivated knowledge base about many markets. Allow our team of expert Matchmakers to curate your perfect date.
Top Restaurants
- Quince: 470 Pacific Ave, San Francisco, CA 94133
- Rich Table: 199 Gough St, San Francisco, CA 94102
- State Bird Provisions: 1529 Fillmore St, San Francisco, CA 94115
- Octavia: 1701 Octavia St, San Francisco, CA 94109
- Atelier Crenn: 3127 Fillmore St, San Francisco, CA 94123
- Benu: 22 Hawthorne St, San Francisco, CA 94105
- Mister Jiu’s: 28 Waverly Pl, San Francisco, CA 94108
- The Slanted Door: 1 Ferry Building #3, San Francisco, CA 94111
San Francisco Date Ideas
- Experience the tranquility and beauty of the San Francisco Botanical Garden, a botanical haven with stunning landscapes and a diverse range of exhibits. Located at 1199 9th Ave, San Francisco, CA 94122.
- Attend a concert at the San Francisco Symphony: Spend a refined evening with world-class musicians. Located at 201 Van Ness Ave, San Francisco, CA 94102.
- Book a Private Suite at The St. Regis San Francisco: Relish a serene afternoon in a private suite with exemplary food and beverage service. Located at 125 3rd St, San Francisco, CA 94103.
- Visit the Silver Oak Winery: A short drive from the city, it’s worth the trip for a wine tasting at this premium winery. Located at 915 Oakville Crossroad, Oakville, CA 94562.
- Book a Private Yacht Charter: Explore the Bay in style with Commodore Cruises & Events. Soak in the stunning views of the city skyline, Golden Gate Bridge, and Alcatraz Island from the comfort of your private yacht while enjoying gourmet dining and exceptional service. Located at 2394 Mariner Square Drive, Alameda, CA 94501.
- Attend a performance at the San Francisco Opera, known for its grandeur and varied performances. Located at 301 Van Ness Ave, San Francisco, CA 94102.
The Story of Selective Search
Founded in 2000, Barbie Adler created Selective Search as a way for accomplished singles to find love. Now standing as the leading luxury matchmaking firm, the success of Selective Search has brought thousands of couples together.
One on One Matchmaking Process
A proven six-step process marrying the best of executive search and matchmaking techniques. Selective Search is the professional matchmaking service that delivers results.
The Meet Your Future process was developed from an expansive study of relevant industries such as: executive search, psychology, traditional matchmaking, and sociology. We continue to evolve and develop our best-in-class methods. This innovative process has allowed Selective Search to become the industry leader with an 89% success rate and more than 4,000 happy couples.
As the premier San Francisco matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love.
“I can honestly say that I have never been happier in my life. How can I put a price on finding someone I may spend the rest of my life with? I would recommend Selective Search to anyone with the commitment to finding their last first date!”
— Paul & Lisa
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