MATCHMAKER SERVICES
FOR MEN

Spend your time falling in love — not searching for it.

As the nation’s leading matchmaker for men, Selective Search offers services to help commitment-minded singles, like you, find love.

87%

Success Rate

4000+

Happy Couples

100%

Confidential


Our goal is to introduce you to the love of your life, while you’re busy living your life. There are many matchmaking services for men out there, but none that safeguard your time, privacy, and preferences like Selective Search. Unlike other dating apps or sites, Selective Search is dedicated to building long-term loving relationships for busy professionals just like you.

Our expertly developed Meet Your Future process has revolutionized the way people find love. Consider it as a business plan for your love life. The process combines Fortune 500 executive search techniques with over 150 years of matchmaking experience.

Each client is supported by a world-class team of seasoned professionals, including Matchmakers, researchers, recruiters, and marketing professionals. Selective Search Matchmakers are your greatest asset, they get to know you comprehensively and tailor their approach to your preferences and goals. As an objective third party, your Matchmaker adds value by assisting you in developing the right relationships and providing valuable feedback.

Selective Search clients don’t have trouble finding dates, they simply do not have the time to waste on dates without long-term potential.

No apps. No online dating profiles. Just strategic dating.

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Meet Your Future Process

“I would say to anyone who has a stigma about using a matchmaker that they’re living in the past. And the biggest regret I have about using Selective Search is not using it soon enough.”

— Rahul

The ROI of Love

As the nation’s premier matchmaking service for men, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men find love. 

Lessons In Love

A premier guide to modern matchmaking. Exclusive dating and relationship advice from our matchmaking experts.

Let’s find her!

Selective Search can help you find the woman you’ve been looking for. The question isn’t whether we’ll be able to find her. It’s “How soon would you like to meet her?”

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