Selective Search - Executive search meets personal matchmaking


No, all the great guys aren't taken and we have proof

Affiliate Membership – Free Program

Are you ready to meet the man you want to spend the rest of your life with? Our Clients are high-caliber, successful men looking for long-term, committed relationships. They don’t need to be “fixed up.” They simply don’t have the time or energy to spend on dates without potential. And we know you don’t either. That’s why we introduce you to a man who meets your criteria, while respecting your time and preferences. For your peace of mind, we also require that all of our Clients undergo our proprietary Background Certification process, and be personally interviewed in-depth by one of our matchmakers before being accepted as a Client.

  • 87%Overall Success Rate
  • 34%Of our Clients find love with their first date
  • 48% Of our Clients find love within four dates
  • 3,902Couples engaged, living together, or dating exclusively
  • 1,500Marriages and counting
  • 500Babies with more on the way
  • A+Better Business Bureau
  • 19Years leading the industry
  • 110Personal indicators measured

Isn’t it time you found your other half?

Joining our Affiliate program is free. Simply create and submit an online application. Your application is 100% confidential and is only accessible to Selective Search® employees. If we believe we have an incredible bachelor to introduce you to, your Personal Recruiter will contact you so we can get to know you better. This may happen immediately or down the road. Much like in the executive recruiting industry, there are no guarantees; but you have nothing to lose and the love of your life to gain.

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Surely you didn't get where you are in life by leaving your most important relationships to chance.

Client Membership for Women – Fee-Based Program

Many successful women find they have everything they could wish for in life except what matters most: the love of a man who’s as extraordinary as they are. Selective Search knows how deeply fulfilling it is to find the love of your life. We also understand just how demanding your life is and how little time you have to waste. Our programs are 100% confidential, customized and offline. Through our proven, Meet Your Future process, we introduce you to the most handsome, eligible men who meet your exacting criteria. We bring happiness and love to our Clients throughout North America.


We search everywhere to find the perfect match, using our national network of Scouts, corporate outreach, and personal marketing through direct response, PR, advertising and social media. We also have an impressive roster of male Clients to choose from.  No matter what you’re looking for in a man, Selective Search honors your preferences and doesn’t judge them. In fact, we don’t consider it “picky” to have preferences about age, religion, ethnicity, education, physical appearance, lifestyle, personality type, family values, or whatever may be important to you. Our mission is to know exactly who you’re looking for so we can find him for you.

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Don’t Settle. Be Selective.

Call us today at 866-592-1200, email us at Or submit your confidential, online application so we can get to know you better before we schedule a complimentary consultation.

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