CLIENT testimonials

As the nation’s premier matchmaking firm, Selective Search has helped thousands of individuals build loving relationships.

Our matchmaking service reviews lead the way in the industry. We invite you to hear our client’s love stories directly from their voices. With the highest matchmaker reviews, allow Selective Search to help you find love.

“I’ve always felt that Selective Search was always looking out for my best interests, and truly wanted to see me get married. I’ve met the woman of my dreams, and for that I am forever grateful.”
— JOE

“I can honestly say that I have never been happier in my life. How can I put a price on finding someone I may spend the rest of my life with? I would recommend Selective Search to anyone with the commitment to finding their last first date!”
— PAUL & LISA

“I would say to anyone who has a stigma about using a matchmaker that they’re living in the past. And the biggest regret I have about using Selective Search is not using it soon enough.”
— RAHUL

“Selective Search is truly a best-in-class matchmaking service. It is a top-notch luxury experience from its unsurpassed client relations executives to its high (highest!) caliber clientele. The team is exceptional. With the utmost regard for their client’s privacy, reputation, and time. Selective Search is definitely the best matchmaking service out there!”
— Megan

“Selective Search has been a fantastic company to work with. They are professional, responsive, and truly care about their clients. I wholeheartedly recommend Selective Search to anyone who is truly interested in finding a match and wants to say “goodbye” to standard dating websites.”
— Doug

“I would definitely recommend Selective Search; it really is a premiere matching service. They are genuinely friendly and professional to work with. They are thorough with their matchmaking process while carefully vetting both their member and candidate pool. Finding love is an investment in time, patience, and openness to meeting the one. Goodbye to mindless scrolling through questionable online profiles. I wish I had known about Selective Search sooner!”
— Frances

“I believe one of the smartest decisions I’ve made in my life was to reach out to the people at Selective Search. They ask questions and deeply listen to what their clients are looking for. I was amazed at how ‘on target’ they were when it came to presenting potential matches. Truly, truly amazed. Their network is extraordinary and the care they take with their clients made what could have been an anxiety-ridden time, a pleasant, comfortable, and ultimately, extremely successful experience. Thank you for helping me find my soulmate!”
— Dina

“We have been having so much fun together it seems too good to be true. We have been with each other whenever possible. This is the happiest I have been in a long, long, long time. I can’t get the smile off my face. I don’t know how else to express my gratitude other than to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for introducing me to her!!!”
— BRAD & DENISE

“Selective Search has found my partner in crime, my other half and “my lobster” (I love Friends). Brett is everything I dreamt of .. We both love the same TV shows, live active lives, we crave travel and entrepreneurship. Because of Selective Search and their marvelous Matchmakers, we have a lifetime of adventures ahead!”
— BRETT & ASHLEY

“Selective Search found the love of my life. I met the woman of my dreams, and I cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with her. She is everything I hoped for and more. They really listened to who I was looking for and were extremely caring and passionate throughout the journey. I will be forever grateful to Selective Search.”
— LARRY & METTE

“I am far too busy to do online dating, and do not hang out at bars. I can admit that I’m extremely selective and not easy to please. I had lost faith in the dating process, but Selective Search was optimistic that we’d find “the love of my life!” Selective Search kept refining my search until I finally met Paul. Selective Search found that proverbial needle in a haystack for me! I can honestly say that I have never been happier in my life. How can I put a price on finding someone I may spend the rest of my life with? I would recommend Selective Search to anyone with the commitment to finding their last first date.”
— Paul & Lisa

“Selective Search is no ordinary matchmaking service. The staff interviews potential clients and candidates in a way that allows them to dig deep into each person and find compatible qualities. As a candidate, it’s a huge leap of faith to put the outcome of your future into the hands of another person. With my matchmaker, I could not have been in better hands, she was always professional and sincere. I thought I knew what I was looking for, but my matchmaker knew better. When I met Jared there was compatibility on so many levels I never thought possible. I would say that our story could have been a one-time chance happening, but one of my closest friends had the exact same experience with Selective Search a little over a year ago. THANK YOU Selective Search!”
— Donna & Jared

“I have had experience with both Selective Search and one other major national search firm. I have found Selective Search to be far superior in several important aspects: the professionalism of their people, the thoroughness and sophistication of their processes, the very discrete manner with which they handle personal information, and of course, and most importantly, the degree to which they are able to identify and recommend only highly qualified candidates. I would recommend them to anyone without reservation!”
— Jerry

“Deciding to work with Selective Search was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. They’ve taken my search very seriously and approach the engagement with the highest level of professionalism and discretion. My matchmaker is extremely attentive, proactive, and thoughtful with her suggestions; consistently putting me in a position to be successful. That’s all I could ever ask for.”
— J.G.

“Through Selective Search’s efforts, I found an exciting, beautiful, smart, talented and successful woman who met all of my benchmarks and then some. I couldn’t be more pleased with the result.”
— WARREN & JILLIAN

“I went through it mentally; I could spend thousands of dollars trying to date people that might not lead to anything significant. Or, I could invest in a firm like Selective Search.”
— CRAIG & SUSAN

“I think that Selective Search, for me, brought a very high level of professionalism that couldn’t have been matched. I think that having Selective Search do the footwork for me was the best thing that ever happened in my life, really. If I didn’t have their help, I never would have met Sonia.”
— ROD & SONIA

“My entire experience with Selective Search has been outstanding! The team of matchmakers have been professional, courteous, and fun! It has taken the dating pressure off my shoulders and I feel confident that I’ll find the right partner through their service. I highly recommend their team to anyone who wants to take dating and finding a life partner seriously!”
— Taylor

“Selective Search is a breath of fresh air for anyone who is seriously looking for a long-term committed partner. After a couple of years on regular dating sites, trust me when I say that this is a completely different experience. They do the hard work of finding quality matches who are suited to your lifestyle and wish list. My matchmaker has been a joy – she’s a good friend, a trusted partner, and I feel so supported and excited about my future love life going forward. I highly recommend this service!”
— Tory

“Selective Search is truly a best-in-class matchmaking service that combines the professionalism of a business headhunter and the personalization of a best friend to help high-caliber individuals connect. They took the time to really get to know me, understand my values, and needs, and identify what I was looking for in a potential match. They respected my privacy and everyone I worked with was warm, engaging and so professional. Their ability to identify a great match is truly exceptional and I am beyond thankful!”
— Jennifer

“I was initially drawn to Selective Search by their business model, which appeals to my analytical side. After all, it seemed that there were not many women that were compatible with me. It makes sense to work with a firm that casts its net broadly before applying sensitive filters. I discovered through my experience that Selective Search treated me with empathy, sensitivity, and used intuition in making matches throughout the process. It has been a very positive, and transformative experience.”
— Bradford

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