SAN DIEGO MATCHMAKING SERVICES

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Selective Search has over 150 years of combined Matchmaker experience and has successfully matched over 4,000 couples. Ranked as the best matchmaking service in San Diego for professionals, Selective Search Matchmakers have proven results building long-term loving relationships for busy, successful individuals who value their time and privacy. 

There are many matchmaking services available in the San Diego area, but there are none that safeguard your time, privacy, and preferences like Selective Search. Unlike other dating sites or apps, Selective Search is dedicated to building long-term loving relationships for busy professionals just like you. 

Dating in San Diego

Did you know that San Diego, California is one of the premier cities for singles seeking meaningful connections? San Diego captivates professionals with its thriving tech industry, breathtaking architecture, dynamic arts scene, and a culinary landscape that stands among the nation's finest. 

Recognizing that professionals often grapple with demanding schedules, we've taken the responsibility to present you a carefully curated list of the top restaurants and high-end date ideas in the San Diego area. 

Top Restaurants

San Diego Date Ideas

  • Revel in the tranquility and beauty of the San Diego Botanic Garden, a haven for plant lovers with diverse landscapes and exhibits. Located at 300 Quail Gardens Dr, Encinitas, CA 92024. 

  • Attend a performance at The Old Globe, famed for its architectural elegance and varied shows. Located at 1363 Old Globe Way, San Diego, CA 92101.

  • Attend a Concert at the San Diego Symphony: Enjoy a refined evening with world-class musicians. Located at 1245 Seventh Ave, San Diego, CA 92101.

  • Book a Private Cabana at The US Grant, a Luxury Collection Hotel, San Diego: Enjoy a tranquil afternoon in a private poolside cabana with top-notch food and drink service. Located at 326 Broadway, San Diego, CA 92101. 

  • Visit the Callaway Vineyard & Winery: Slightly outside of San Diego, it's worth the trip for a wine tasting or a cooking class at this luxurious winery and resort. Located at 32720 Rancho California Rd, Temecula, CA 92591. 

  • Enjoy a romantic sunset at Altitude Sky Lounge. Located at 660 K Street, San Diego, CA 92101. 

As the premier San Diego matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love.

“I would say to anyone who has a stigma about using a matchmaker that they’re living in the past. And the biggest regret I have about using Selective Search is not using it soon enough.”

— Rahul

Start Your Search For Love In San Diego

Selective Search can help you find the person you’ve been looking for. The question isn’t whether we’ll be able to find them. It’s “How soon would you like to meet them?” 

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